Setting New Year’s Resolutions … or Not
Monday, January 18th, 2010
I’m sure many of you have read articles over the last few weeks on New Year’s resolutions. At first I felt compelled to throw my hat into the ring discussing success in implementing changes. But, I had to be honest with myself. I’ve never been one to make new year’s resolutions. Why? I’m just one who doesn’t look at a new calendar year as a milestone. Same with my birthday. They’re just another day for me, not a self-imposed deadline or kick off for change.
I’ve always admired those individuals, though, who do use the new year as the impetus for a desired change in their life. I’ve just never done it. I am more about periodically taking stock of my life, evaluating where I’m at and where I want to be. But I don’t necessarily do that at the beginning of a calendar year. It’s more of a very slow climb with many setbacks throughout time.
So how does one make changes in their life successfully? I could talk about goal setting, breaking the goals down into specific steps, and evaluating solutions that work for you personally. I could discuss analyzing each goal so you know what is looks like for you and you alone. Or finding a friend to hold you accountable. I could share many suggestions pulled from pundits and personal experience, but I’m sure you, like me, have heard them all.
Bottom line, here’s what I’ve learned. Goals can’t be achieved unless they are heartfelt. Many goals sound good in theory but unless you can wrap both your heart and mind around them… really internalizing them, the goals will never be reached.
So, where does that leave us? Let me just close by passing on a challenge that was recently posed to a group of us. I view this as the essential foundation for all goal setting. It is this:
It bears repeating. Don’t waste your life by being mediocre. You want your life to matter. Never underestimate the impact and power of your life alone.
Mull on that for a bit, as I have. Then…. start setting your goals for 2010.









